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12:36pm Wednesday 25th June 2008
TIMOTHY Edmeades, a teaching assistant at a local school, has just started a 33 month jail sentence for grooming and sexually assaulting young boys put in his trust in a Thurrock cub scout group.
Probably in less than two years he will be out on the streets again.
“I can’t begin to tell you what it’s like. I wasn’t at home when the police came. My wife had to ring me and tell me. It was as if the whole of our world had just gone. Can you imagine the guilt, the anguish and the pain we feel?"
Anguished dad
Reputable people in the borough, including a former mayor and councillor, have spoken up for him. Local cub scout leaders have been accused of closing ranks to protect him.
And the headmaster at his school lost his job for not carrying out appropriate checks on the man who proved to be a child-molesting pervert.
It's a story that has devastated several borough families who feel they have been let down by the system.
One of Edmeades' victims was eight when the abuse started. He's 10 now. He still cries when he's on his own. His parents have to listen to him sobbing behind his closed bedroom door. He has told his distraught father he doesn't think his life is worth living any more.
To put it bluntly - he and his family have a life sentence. Other boys and their families have voiced similar stories. They are struggling to come to terms with what they can only describe as a nightmare.
It's a sordid, harrowing story - and one that still has many unanswered questions. Asking many of them is a 45 year-old Aveley dad.
His world exploded two years ago when police arrived on his front doorstep to tell him his son and another youngster had bravely called telephone helpline Childline to expose the man who had laughed, joked and shared a drink in the family sitting room.
The same man who had won families' trust is a man who kept images of a four-year-old boy being raped on his computer.
It's every parent's nightmare. With tears brimming in his harrowed eyes, this anguished dad has now called for a further major probe into the case that has shattered his world.
Talking exclusively to the Gazette he said: "I still struggle to come to terms with what has happened. This man, if you can call him a man, worked his manipulative way into the system. He had a job at a local school.
"He worked his way through several scout and cub packs. He systematically picked out children, won over their trust and that of their parents, then he sexually abused them.
"Now he's been found guilty but he's got a very short sentence while my son is serving a lifetime one.
"I can't begin to tell you what it's like. I wasn't at home when the police came. My wife had to ring me and tell me. It was as if the whole of our world had just gone. Can you imagine the guilt, the anguish and the pain we feel?
"Edmeades sat in our home, laughing and talking to us and our son and at the same time he was plotting how to abuse our boy.
"Our son has to live with this. Can you imagine what it's like? We hear him crying in the bath, when he's alone in his bed and he sometimes comes up and tells us he thinks his life is worthless.
"Yet despite this, can you also imagine how brave he and his friend were when they decided to call Childline? They couldn't tell us but they made sure the truth came out in the end.
"Not that it has been easy. Some people just didn't want to know, there are people in the scouting world now who still say that Edmeades is innocent, they won't hear a word against him despite the fact that he has been proven to be guilty. Why is that? We need more answers."
Edmeades, 33, was charged with assaulting two local boys. Other parents have spoken to the Gazette about their fears that there has been a conspiracy to protect the pervert.
The cub pack where he was a leader was briefly suspended by the scouting organisation but the parents fear a whitewash as it has now been reopened.
One dad said: "They didn't do their job properly in letting him get involved. Even now, when it's been proven otherwise and when some of the vile things that he's been doing have been exposed, they still say he is innocent.
"What is worrying is why they would do that. Are there other people involved? Is there some sort of conspiracy? The only way for us to be sure is for a root and branch inquiry either by the scouts' top brass or an independent organisation to go into this in every aspect. This should never be allowed to happen again."
One of the charges levelled against Edmeades in court was perverting the course of justice. Using his computer skills he attempted to discredit the children and parents say he was manipulative beyond belief, creating a plausible background to cover up his evil.
Among his supporters at Basildon Crown Court was former borough mayor and current councillor Gerard Rice. In a statement to the court he said: "Mr Edmeades worked for me from May 1997 to January 2001 at Benson Bedstore in Lakeside retail park, Lakeside. He was trustworthy, diligent, totally reliable with our customers and gave the company good service "He also assisted me throughout my term as mayor of Thurrock, dealing with many constituents, case work and helping at civil functions at the council."
Two of the parents of abused children are so angered by councillor Rice's support for Edmeades that they have made a formal complaint to the council and the matter has been reported to the authority's standards committee.
However, councillor Rice says he too is a victim of Edmeades' persuasive powers. Currently out of the country he called the Gazette to say: "I was unaware of the nature of the charges against him. He asked me for a reference saying he was involved in a minor court case.
"Clearly he has duped me. I cannot in anyway condone what he has done or support him and I can only apologise to the families of his victims for my naivety in giving him this reference."
One man who has already paid a price for his association with Edmeades is former Kenningtons Primary School headteacher Peter Minter.
Edmeades worked at the school and in 2006 a veil of secrecy was thrown around the head's suspension from duty because of allegations concerning Edmeades.
Allegations from parents followed over Mr Minter's conduct and he eventually lost his job. Thurrock Council, refused to give the reasons why but it is believed that a failure to conduct CRB checks was one of the reasons.
At the time a spokesperson for the governors of Kenningtons said: "It would be inappropriate for the governing body to confirm or deny the current situation regarding any member of staff.
"We are able to confirm that the school's disciplinary process is being applied against a member of staff and the process will continue."
An Essex police spokesperson said: "Other agencies have raised some concern with Essex police and we are making some enquiries."
Those enquiries eventually led to the prosecution of Edmeades.
The affair reached a conclusion when he appeared at Southend Crown Court last week and was jailed for 33 months, a far from adequate sentence according to some parents and even the police.
The mother of one of the abused boys said the sentence was "appalling." She said: "I don't think it is long enough," while investigating police officer Det Sgt Anita Taylor said: "I am disappointed with the sentence."
Families in Aveley involved say they are left in a strange limbo. They want to put the matter behind them and their children, but feel not enough has yet been done to investigate what happened.
Their fears were summed up by the father of one boy who finally broke down in tears when saying: "Our trust has been abused. Our children's trust has been abused. Edmeades is a manipulative, evil person who will serve a short term and then have to sign a sex offender's register that really means nothing.
"He can change his name and disappear and he appears to have friends who still believe in him and want to protect him. Who protects our children? And who is really interested at getting into the truth? Who wants to really make sure this doesn't happen again?"
Scott Nelson, Aveley says...
3:48pm Wed 25 Jun 08
Scott Nelson, Aveley says...
5:33pm Wed 25 Jun 08
Eddie, aveley says...
6:41pm Wed 25 Jun 08
Yanxa, South Ockendon says...
9:45pm Wed 25 Jun 08
rieanchris, south ockendon says...
9:16am Thu 26 Jun 08
Eddie wrote:i totally agree with you eddie... the blokes scum,
these nonce's always seem to be cub and scout leaders, or school workers, just look at his picture, surely that should have rang alarm bells. Luckily my kids are now adults, but if that had happened to my sons 33 months time I would be at the prison gates that is of course after being at the judges front door, 33 months??? have we checked the crb records of the judge??? my heart goes out to the parents and children involved. may god be with you. this world we live in is sick how can anyone justify 33 months for a premeditated, carefully planned, attack on innocent lives, lets hope he's doing time in my friends cell block, he loves people like him!!!
Thomas Johns, Essex says...
10:10am Thu 26 Jun 08
Eddie, aveley says...
12:23pm Thu 26 Jun 08
Yanxa wrote:read it again, I dint say they are all cub and scout leaders, just that they seem to be, and it goes back a long time to when I was 14 at school and my brothers mate, a scout leader grabs my nuts whilst pretending to be a friend, so forgive me for assuming this but just look at the poxy little git, wouldnt you like to stuff him with the rough end of a pinapple. These people go for these type of jobs or hobbys wuth the explicit intention of assaulting kids, Im not saying all cub and scout leaders are nonce's far from it but most nonces try to become cub and scout leaders, just look at parades and look at the cub leaders, how many typify this blokes appearance??? Now this is just my cynical opinion maybe, but my kids thank god were protected from this type of guy . Total trash in your opinion maybe, but rather that than locking the preverbial stable door
I think that satement of yours, Eddie, is total trash. Just because Edmeades is a nonce, as you called him, doesn't mean that all paedophiles are Scout/Cub Leaders.
Freddy K, says...
12:58pm Thu 26 Jun 08
just look at parades and look at the cub leaders, how many typify this blokes appearance???are very stereotypical, how can you tell a sexual predator just by looks? if you are able to do that then maybe you should offer your sevices to the authorities and pick them all out just by their looks.
Sue, says...
3:18pm Thu 26 Jun 08
Scott Nelson, Aveley says...
5:26pm Thu 26 Jun 08
Eddie, aveley says...
7:58pm Thu 26 Jun 08
sim73, Aveley says...
9:51pm Sat 28 Jun 08
Sue, says...
11:37pm Sat 28 Jun 08
sim73 wrote:Yes all schools and clubs run CRB checks -well in my experience they do. I have had 3 done - 2 for work and 1 for assisting a cub pack. My husband has had 2 done. 1 for cubs and 1 for a football team. At my kids school parents wishing to hear children read have to be checked so do memebers of the PTA. Quite right too! However, the CRB check will only highlight those people WITH a criminal record/conviction. Sadly nonces like Edmeades was deemed 'fit' to work with kids - and he may still have been getting away with his vile acts had it not been for the brave individuals who had the courage to speak up. 33 months - not enough!
Surely thurrock council education department do checks on all teachers. on teachers and assistants, We have to do police checks to run our kids football teams so this must be a must for all people working with children, and i agree with all the people that say this " NONCE " should be locked away for indefinetly , once a nonce always a nonce , my heart goes out to all those familys whos lives have been destroyed by this filthy animal, and it makes me sick when councillers say all these people need is help , WHAT ABOUT THE VICTIMS , its about time this boroughs councillers got a back bone or " RESINGED "
claire, grays says...
2:09pm Mon 30 Jun 08
claire, grays says...
2:11pm Mon 30 Jun 08
Sue, says...
2:05pm Tue 1 Jul 08
claire wrote:Hear Hear.
The fact that i find so unbelievable is that not only will this sick piece of s***t get protection on the outside, when he's released, but also on the inside, where he will be locked up with another pervert who's committed similar offences to his,on a wing that's totally segregated and protected from other inmates where they are free to exchange the evidence of their sick crimes for sexual gratification. The only punishment, that i find justifiable, would be to lock them in a room for 10 minutes with the parents of victims, imagine the damage that could do. When will the do-gooders realize that this filth CANNOT be rehabilitated, it is a sexual preference, you can't make a paedophile stop liking children.Being locked up will be just a holiday for him where he will have much better living conditions and luxuries than our great british troops fighting in Afghanistan.
iain_in_grays, Badgers Dene says...
10:42pm Wed 2 Jul 08
Mr Joe Public, Thurrock says...
2:26pm Thu 3 Jul 08
iain_in_grays wrote:that's just as sick as the vermin that's just got off far too lightly imho.
All we need to to people like this is put them in Grays town centre and publicly castrate them, brand them with something large and hot. Then throw them in the Thames. If any other kiddy fiddlers are watching it mat make them think twice, if not then theres a live show in Grays town centre. How about a new use for the State building??
Mr Joe Public, Thurrock says...
2:29pm Thu 3 Jul 08
Sue wrote:irrelevant. troops are not prisoners.
claire wrote:Hear Hear.
The fact that i find so unbelievable is that not only will this sick piece of s***t get protection on the outside, when he's released, but also on the inside, where he will be locked up with another pervert who's committed similar offences to his,on a wing that's totally segregated and protected from other inmates where they are free to exchange the evidence of their sick crimes for sexual gratification. The only punishment, that i find justifiable, would be to lock them in a room for 10 minutes with the parents of victims, imagine the damage that could do. When will the do-gooders realize that this filth CANNOT be rehabilitated, it is a sexual preference, you can't make a paedophile stop liking children.Being locked up will be just a holiday for him where he will have much better living conditions and luxuries than our great british troops fighting in Afghanistan.
Mr Joe Public, Thurrock says...
2:31pm Thu 3 Jul 08
Eddie wrote:eddie do you look like a nonce?
these nonce's always seem to be cub and scout leaders, or school workers, just look at his picture, surely that should have rang alarm bells.
Luckily my kids are now adults, but if that had happened to my sons 33 months time I would be at the prison gates that is of course after being at the judges front door, 33 months??? have we checked the crb records of the judge??? my heart goes out to the parents and children involved. may god be with you. this world we live in is sick how can anyone justify 33 months for a premeditated, carefully planned, attack on innocent lives, lets hope he's doing time in my friends cell block, he loves people like him!!!
claire, grays says...
4:16pm Thu 3 Jul 08
Mr Joe Public wrote:You're missing the point, what i meant was that it's a waste of money keeping these pervs locked up, they DO live a life of luxury in prison unlike our troops that are living in such poor conditions and they're fighting or their countrty, why not give the money to them rather than wasting it on filth like this, get it? I never said troops ARE prisoners, and i think i made agood point that's why i posted it, Sue thought so too.
Sue wrote:irrelevant. troops are not prisoners. why did you even bother posting?claire wrote: The fact that i find so unbelievable is that not only will this sick piece of s***t get protection on the outside, when he's released, but also on the inside, where he will be locked up with another pervert who's committed similar offences to his,on a wing that's totally segregated and protected from other inmates where they are free to exchange the evidence of their sick crimes for sexual gratification. The only punishment, that i find justifiable, would be to lock them in a room for 10 minutes with the parents of victims, imagine the damage that could do. When will the do-gooders realize that this filth CANNOT be rehabilitated, it is a sexual preference, you can't make a paedophile stop liking children.Being locked up will be just a holiday for him where he will have much better living conditions and luxuries than our great british troops fighting in Afghanistan.Hear Hear.
claire, grays says...
4:32pm Thu 3 Jul 08
iain_in_grays, Badgers Dene says...
4:36pm Thu 3 Jul 08
Mr Joe Public wrote:I suppose you'd like to send him on a nice holiday so he can reflect on his crimes then.
iain_in_grays wrote:that's just as sick as the vermin that's just got off far too lightly imho.
All we need to to people like this is put them in Grays town centre and publicly castrate them, brand them with something large and hot. Then throw them in the Thames. If any other kiddy fiddlers are watching it mat make them think twice, if not then theres a live show in Grays town centre. How about a new use for the State building??
maybe we should do that to you iain in grays, just in case any other brutal inhumane sick ****** is reading, it might put them off?
that manner of foolish gobbing off, is part of the problem not the solution...
Mr Joe Public, Thurrock says...
5:12pm Thu 3 Jul 08
iain_in_grays, Badgers Dene says...
6:56pm Thu 3 Jul 08
Mr Joe Public wrote:Look Mr Joe- the argument here is one of principle not whether people should "wake up" because they don't agree with your slightly righteous views.
With all due and all that, your the ones that are missing the pointÂ…
Troops willingly join the armed forces, and are fully aware what they are signing up for. There is no national service or forced military service in the UK. They know what they are putting themselves up for and WANT to do it. (Or they wouldnÂ’t be signing up would they?) They desire to be soldiers. And are the pride of the nation for it. They are not prisoners.
This sick odious sub human piece of filth, (now he's been properly convicted via the criminal justice system – not some self appointed expert gobbing off) has WILLINGLY subverted & perverted the childhood & innocence of youth, destroyed families and committed a very serious offence, on par with an act of terrorism. (I would agree that the sentence is far to light btw) and if you honestly think that a CONVICTED PEADOPHILE is in for an easy ride inside then your far more deluded that I first took you all for. As for when he gets out, that’s no easy ride either.
& here we go with the brain washed gibberish “looney liberal left” etc jibes. *yawn*
Wake up and smell the coffee, just because all of us don’t meet your narrow minded bigoted, xenophobic & myopic folly, doesn’t mean we are “nulabour” supporters. You away with the fairies looney far right arrogant goons are just as bad as Al Qaeda, and are your own worst enemies. You should all be flung out of the country or tried as traitors. Try following a real news source not comedy pages.
No he should not have “nice holiday so he can reflect on his crimes then” he should be busting rocks in Siberia wearing nothing but a thong for the rest of his days. And that is far too good for him. Better yet just shoot it off into space one way with no suit. Or at least never see natural daylight again under lock and key.
We are supposed to be civilised, two wrongs donÂ’t make a right, never will. Daft moronic vigilante action will only serve to get YOURSELVES locked down probably for longer than the original offender, what future for your family & children then? Thinka bout that for a moment.
Mind you don't become a criminal yourself with that kind of daft talk, they will hunt you down like a rat, maintaining law & order is a top priority for the powers that be. It’s not a case of “feeling sorry” either it’s a case of a crime vs a crime. It really is that simple.
People such as yourselves coming out with daftass idiot talk like that are the other side of the coin of what is a very complex social problem, that is not going to go away with sick perverted brutal inhumane punishments. As an example, in the US they have the death penalty. However the crimes that can receive the death penalty are still regularly committed. It doesnÂ’t serve as a deterrent. QED.
I have plenty worth while to contribute “Claire” it just may not meet your own view.
Also I dearly hope that the affected families now that a conviction has been secured are able to rebuild their lives and put this whole terrible incident behind them and move on. No one should have to suffer what these people have been through.
Then of course thereÂ’s the vermin that just make it up to try and get themselves of the hook, but we will leave that for another occasion out of respect for those affected by this convicted filth.
Welcome to reality.
Eddie, aveley says...
6:19am Fri 4 Jul 08
Mr Joe Public wrote:Mr Joe Public, Maybe I do Maybe I dont, but at least I have the Guts to put my ownname on my writings I dont hid behind a made up name, people in Aveley know me and know my integrity, who the hell are you,?
Eddie wrote: these nonce's always seem to be cub and scout leaders, or school workers, just look at his picture, surely that should have rang alarm bells. Luckily my kids are now adults, but if that had happened to my sons 33 months time I would be at the prison gates that is of course after being at the judges front door, 33 months??? have we checked the crb records of the judge??? my heart goes out to the parents and children involved. may god be with you. this world we live in is sick how can anyone justify 33 months for a premeditated, carefully planned, attack on innocent lives, lets hope he's doing time in my friends cell block, he loves people like him!!!eddie do you look like a nonce? maybe we should make you a dectictive, we would have this whole very complex social problem wrapped up in a few hours! i'll just mail the home office...
Eddie, aveley says...
6:55am Fri 4 Jul 08
claire, grays says...
11:02am Fri 4 Jul 08
claire, grays says...
11:04am Fri 4 Jul 08
Mr Joe Public, Thurrock says...
11:19am Sat 5 Jul 08
Scott Nelson, Aveley says...
3:37pm Sat 5 Jul 08
Eddie wrote:You haven't revealed your surname, though! Also, I live in Aveley and I don't know of any Eddie's! ;-)
Mr Joe Public wrote:Mr Joe Public, Maybe I do Maybe I dont, but at least I have the Guts to put my ownname on my writings I dont hid behind a made up name, people in Aveley know me and know my integrity, who the hell are you,? this guy is a nonce, he looks like one and acts like one, dresses like one and is one, i bet he wears track suit bottoms and sandles, has suit trousers 3 inches above his waist line and pulls his trousers up higher than Simon Cowels, the truth as we know it by Eddie, oh sorry shoud I call myself Aveley's voice or mr common thought???Eddie wrote: these nonce's always seem to be cub and scout leaders, or school workers, just look at his picture, surely that should have rang alarm bells. Luckily my kids are now adults, but if that had happened to my sons 33 months time I would be at the prison gates that is of course after being at the judges front door, 33 months??? have we checked the crb records of the judge??? my heart goes out to the parents and children involved. may god be with you. this world we live in is sick how can anyone justify 33 months for a premeditated, carefully planned, attack on innocent lives, lets hope he's doing time in my friends cell block, he loves people like him!!!eddie do you look like a nonce? maybe we should make you a dectictive, we would have this whole very complex social problem wrapped up in a few hours! i'll just mail the home office...
davidg, thurrock says...
8:45am Wed 9 Jul 08
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Freddy K, says...
3:43pm Wed 25 Jun 08
It must be harrowing for the victims and their families to know that such a perverted peice of trash will be roaming free in less than a year.
The CRB system which includes the enhanced one that is used by The Scouts and othe bodies that deal with children is only of use if the person has been previously convicted of a crime, so if they have never been caught they will pass the CRB.
The damage this will have done to The Scout Movement will be major, which is a shame as there are many genuine people involved in the movement who are there to protect and encourage the children in life experiences, it is such a shame when an eveil person like this takes away the innocence and trust from young people..